Men stay Safe
Advice for Men Seeking Sex Workers
By Red Bottoms
A lot of you guys have been toying with the idea of engaging a sex worker. Now, c’mon, don’t be shy, you know who you are! But the problem is that you don’t really know how to go about this rather delicate task, but fear not! August Night, an experienced provider, will be your guide, and it’s easier than you think if you follow her advice.
Opening Acts
Talk to the lady on the phone. Does she sound nice? Don’t use Explicit language in text messages or on the phone but do feel Vibes. That’s important even if the provider you contact is a dominatrix – the cruelty and abuse will start later, if you’re like Red Bottoms and that’s what you’re looking for.
Does she have a website? If she does, she’s much more likely to be legitimate. And here’s an important point, make sure that the lady on the phone matches the lady on the website. If she doesn’t have a website, does she have an ad on a major escort review site such as The Erotic Review? Another idea is to ask for a selfie or face-time, and make sure that the selfie is also a match.
Deposits
The main reason why some providers often ask for deposits of $50 or so is that all too often, guys will make appointments and not show up. This costs m’lady time, gasoline and money. Now August Night has enough experience to know a likely “flake” when she speaks to one, so she seldom asks for a deposit at all, but be aware that some providers will, and it’s not necessarily a bad sign. Dont give up your credit card online to people. You don’t have to give personal information but some women want that but August Night feels like it not safe for men to give your personal information. Options might very but I would not to be on the safe side. Men only pay in after they meet me and they feel conferable.
The only reason for providers to ask for more than that is if she needs to do some serious traveling to reach you. But otherwise it’s a big, flashing Red Sign.
Decriminalization – but don’t get too excited
The State of Maine has “decriminalized” prostitution, but don’t get too excited. This so called decriminalization only protects the Provider from prosecution, NOT YOU! However, you do reap an indirect benefit. Fear of the law is something providers in the other 49 states have to deal with, and with that fear eliminated, the provider has one less worry on her mind, and she’ll have more psychic energy left to concentrate on you. 99.9 percent of time your safe cops are not looking for you but the bad guys.
Cash is King
The best thing about cash is that it is untraceable. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a high profile or public job, because who knows, some day you might, and you don’t want this pleasant dalliance to pop up later. The same logic applies even if you aren’t currently married. And if you’re currently involved in divorce proceedings, this is the very last thing you want to come to light. So why leave a paper trail? And the erotic service provider will also prefer it, because she, too, also wants to stay under the radar
Final Thoughts
If you must use a non-cash way to pay, most sex workers prefer Venmo as it is the most transparent. And finally, although I shouldn’t have to say this, don’t give her your bank account number or your social security number. She may say she needs this to “verify” you, but this is an absolutely infallible sign that she is a criminal and no sex worker at all, but rather that she is actually a thief looking to steal your money, your identity, or maybe both! Good luck and have fun. Please don’t for get to sign up for our news letter for more fun and informative news.